The young couple must enter into this alliance with total determination and commitment of "living together." Pronouncing a promise such as this in God's presence in the church has become a meaningless verbiage. Nobody seems to stick to it nor even remember it after three days.
William and Kate must remember that this union has the Divine approval.. Or. it was the Lord God who brought you together towards this decision. But for His involvement, events wouldn't have come to this stage at all.
On the night of 29th April, before the marriage is consummated, Will and Kate should promise to each other privately, hand in hand, "We will never, never separate come what may. This is my promise to you." This is a vital and serious undertaking.
Then there are some small points you need to observe and treat them as your guide stars. These are small but they could become big and monstrous if you don't deal with every issue immediately.
Married life is analogous to a long sea voyage in a tiny boat for two. Small waves and at times giant waves would rock your boat. But if you stick together, you could sail through any crisis.
Misunderstandings will occur from time to time even on minor matters leading to quarrels. Harsh words also could be used during these tussles. These pin pricks should be resolved then and there and also the details to be deleted from the memory disk immediately.
Harbouring in mind any grudge or complaints against the other, especially after a quarrel, is a taboo. Always be ready to say 'sorry, forgive me' if one of you had gone wrong in some action and forget the whole incident within minutes.
There should be no secrets between you two and no skeletons in your cupboards either. Yours must be an open and transparent life for the British people to see and copy. Your life should be a role model to other young suitors in England.
Be faithful to each other. No gallivanting with a third person!
May Lord God bless you both.
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